I am the father of 3 wonderful children (14,10,6). I have worked hard for several years as a public servant. I stand on the line between society and harms way on a daily basis as a law enforcement officer and a former active duty Marine.
My children are what I live for and what I work for. I have worked hard I have stayed true to the Lord and I have been always faithful to my wife.
just over a year ago my wife (who had not been faithful) filed for divorce and has yet to settle the divorce as she is holding out for more money and all that I have worked for including my rights to see my children.
Several months ago I have asked for help. Due to the divorce I have lost most of my things including my home and a new vehicle and my right to see my children on a daily basis. For over a year I have been sleeping in the back end of a 1986 NISSAN Pick-Up truck. I shower every day at work and do my laundry regularly and keep my clothes at work.
I came to AIDPAGE in desparation looking for help. What i needed was assistance for legal hlep and to HELP pay bills as part of the initial divorce proceedings I have been left with 3/4 of all the family bills plus I have been in a real need to save up to re-establish a home for my self and for it to be suitable for my children to visit with me.
AIDPAGE has been no help for me. I hope that you all who need help and come to AIDPAGE seeking help can get some sort of assistance. I was never asking for a free hand out as so many people do in this day and age and I make too much money on paper to apply for any federal hand out money. I was even turned away from our local public housing authority when I asked about an appartment because they do not care how much money I have in my pocket they only care what it says I make on paper.
My divorce has not been settled yet and I am in debt to my eye balls and according to the U.S. Bankruptcy Laws I make too much money to file Bankruptcy as the laws were re-designed a few years ago that someone who makes $45,000- a year up to $200,000- can almost not file bankruptcy unless your a BANK, A CREDIT COMPANY, A LAWYER-DOCTOR, or on LOW INCOME.
What am I going to do? SIMPLY SUFFER and loose out because my wife was unfaithful and not happy so I HAVE TO PAY FOR IT.
Good luck to you all.
WJR